Funny but yet meaningful short story...

故事很短，但非常精闢，而且評語很爆笑～

一、

一條大蟒蛇和一條小毒蛇是朋友。

這天他們在路邊發現了一只巨大的烏龜。

蛇兄弟想，這麼大的個兒，可是一頓美餐啊。

蟒蛇說：我來對付他。

於是蟒蛇施展自己的絕技，用身體將大烏龜牢牢地纏住。

而大烏龜早已將身體縮進了殼裡，任憑蟒蛇怎麼纏繞，也無法傷害到大烏龜。

泄氣的蟒蛇，氣喘吁吁地爬到了一邊。

大烏龜謹慎地露出腦袋，在他露出腦袋的那一瞬間，小毒蛇閃電般地在烏龜腦袋上咬

了  一口，大烏龜又急忙縮回殼中。

但是幾分鐘後，大烏龜因為中毒而死了。

蟒蛇說：哇！我花了那麼大力氣也沒能傷害烏龜，你卻輕而易舉地辦到了啊。

小毒蛇說：因為我了解他的要害。

可是接下來的還是有一個問題，大烏龜死後依然縮在殼裡，兩條蛇都是吞食性的動

物，而他們又無法脫下烏龜的外殼，只好怏怏地離開了……

這個故事告訴我們：即使你擅長死纏爛打，也未必能泡到那個妞，要了解那個妞才可

以。

這個故事還告訴我們：如果你無法脫下那個妞的衣服，就不要再花力氣去泡她了。

I am Back!

I am back ... hmmm been so long never blogging already. Maybe too many "sim su" don't feel like share with people. Recently talk back with one friend and found out she got attached... From her, she told me his bf is a very good guy, take good care of her, a family guy, a quite guy with little social.... From our conversation, I feel her bf is a typical "balak" but a good family guy which take good care of his family members.

Then she start complaining lack of romantic from his bf (since he is very "balak" mar :> ) Then I asked my friend, you accepted the guy is because u really love him or you don't want to miss a good guy? She answered : "Dunno... "

Is it love or feeling of don't want to miss a good husband in life is she looking for? I wonder...

Whatever is it, once started, then treat your another half the best you could, and appreciate what they did to us. May everyone can find their truth love...

我和她她和他

李志清 (Cheng Lee) 周华健 (Emil Chau)
我和她她和他

别说话来一杯 呛口的Chivas

男人帮不怕辣 却被爱打垮

头发乱脸色差 事情再复杂

总会有解答

我和她她和他

我们都爱她 放不放让不让

都不是办法 当逃兵装伟大

再这么婆妈 你肯定失去她

可她接受我玫瑰花

你还不送她回家

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

我和她她和他

我们都爱她 放不放让不让

都不是办法 当逃兵装伟大

再这么婆妈 你肯定失去她

可她接受我玫瑰花

你还不送她回家

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

One nice song I like to share with my friends. This is the one 我和她她和他 sing by 李志清 & 周华健. Some parts of the song I really like it as it remind me about my feeling and doubts at some time of my life perhaps in most people who has problem in relationship.

A: 你算是男人就应该勇敢吧 ( U should be brave if you're a man)

B: 可我却害怕最后伤害会是她 (But I worry I will hurt her at last)

A: 想太多 理智的想法 (Think Rationally)

A: 不能证明你有多爱她 (Doesn't show how much you love her)

B: 想问个明白却怕会为难她 (I want to know the answer but worry it will make she in trouble)

A: 却急着想要知道她的选择吧 (But U rush to know her choice right?)

B: 好挣扎 (very undecided)

This conversation, I guess is very common among the guy's talk during the "sim su" section :) A challenge u to be brave, but B love the gal so much that don't want to push or pressure her. Don't want to pressure the gal to give him the answer but yet so curious/eager to know the decision made. Arghhhhh .....

Guys... did u all in this kind of deep shit problem before? Congrates if you are not as u have a smooth and happy life, too bad if you never fell into this kind of situation as u never fell in love :)

hahaha
Special translation for the most kns ppl in the earth only :)

Nature

Yesterday I went back to hometown basically done 2 things, visit my friend who's baby 1 month old and visited my aunty who also I would treat her as my 2nd mum.

My friend who just delivered her 1st daughter, look very thin :) Her parents questioned her, izit your in-law never take good care of her and torture her... Of course not, just my friend's not use to eat too much of chinese medicine (补品). Then she told me her experience throughout the whole pregnant stage and delivery incident. It make me shock, worry and yet exicited if those incidents happened to me someday :) I really gain valuable experience on handling the pregnant lady if it happened to my family in future. Haha glad to hear that she and her daugther are in good condition, as that's the greatest blessing in my view.

Some of the funny conversation are as below.
// 1ST SENARIO
SHE: "When I know I am about to deliver, I called my husband back home at 7pm++, then insist him to clean the house, wash the clothes, hang it properly before send me to the hospital!".
ME : "har? Siao ar you, go hospital first la, why still wash and hang the clothes ?"
SHE: "I know even I go to hospital, also will still sit on the bed and continue pain and the blood will still come out one la, better finished all the housework first la"
ME : "LOL" hahaha

// 2ND SENARIO
SHE: "Next time please force ur wife to EAT before go for delivery, eventhough she refuse, must insist and force her to EAT!"
ME : "Y leh? "
SHE: "abo where got energy to push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" HAHHAHA
SHE: "I whole body cramp after push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" Hahahaha

// 3RD SENARIO
SHE: "U know my bro's wife push half way, then go EAT, then come back continue PUSHING, cos she bo lat (no energy to push the child out"
ME : "I really LOL secara gila gila"


My aunty (my 2nd mum) was not feeling well recently. Though she is already 60+, but everyday still wake up at 4.30am and then go to work at the market. Her health and engine get worsen by ages. This is the law of nature, nothing is permanent. She even prepare her wills to my cousins (She is yet to marry) about all sorts of things.

One drastic changes I observed from her is that she more open minded already, last time she don't like relatives come visit her at night because she sleep early, cos the other morning she have to wake up early to fighting for $ again. Now maybe she really feel she might "away" anytime, hence she would more treasure the time with her sisters.

Buddha taught us, nature of human is like that, born, died, reborn and die and reborn again. How to get out from this born and die and reborn cycle is by study and practice the dharma BUDDHA taught us. The nature I try to mean over here is that, human tend to treassure something when they lost it or about to lost it. "I should have", "what if I", is very common in human vocaburary. Now we should really live on the current and treassure the current as
what the Buddhism always quote 活在当下!

Snatch Theft

A friend of mine got snatched the handbag at the Mobile Petrol station at USJ recently. I was stunned and worried about her condition in the first place, but after knowing she is physically alright, I felt relief.

Yesterday was the first day I met her after the incident, she look OK :) According to her, she lost rm150 Parkson voucher, new RM50 notes, 2 ATM cards, some personal pictures, IC and driving license. What I concern her the most, is she still OK, then everything is ok, as money can be bought back, pictures and keychain can be reprint or replaced by new one. But not the life or any serious wound that hardly be replaced.

To my friends, petrol station is HOT SPOT for all this snatch theft, please do not go to the petrol station at night if really needed, don't think you got someone accompany you, don't think you are tough, don't think you are guy or GAy, once you are spotted on by these snatch theft, you are in danger.

Some general tips so that you are not spotted on by snatch theft, keep alert and awareness higher by looking around like you are observing around. Please do not pay attention on handphone of gaming while you are pumping the petrol and so on. Your awareness or alert are low are the main reason why you are spotted on by the snatch theft.

sukhi-hotu to all --> May all of us always be well and happy :)

WE ARE THE BOSS !!

It's been very long time i didnt update the blog. Was busy with following up with all sort of 12-GE news. Feel very happy with the result of 12-GE where the 2/3 of majority of the BN being denied by the BR(Barisan Rakyak). The immediate effects towards us as the citizen of Malaysia is the price of the ELECTRICITY will not rise WHERE it will be scheduled to rise after the GE if the BN won again.

The second thing that directly affecting us is the petrol price is expected to be maintained as any proposal to increase the petrol price will have to seek the approval of 2/3 majority in the parliament where it's been denied.

3rd but not list, I assure you the price of TOLL will be remained! See, this is the power of the RAKYAT, where we use to be the boss. In this GE we really show to those idiots MP that WE ARE THE BOSS not you. IF WE ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOU, I WILL MAKE UP FALL. Same goes to the opposition, if you not serving us well.. Peoples power can elect you to be MP, will make u an ordinary residential of Malaysia as well.

Hopefully after this GE, the mindset of Malaysian will change, do not think what the BN give us and we should treassure it and thank to them, indeed, it is we are the boss, we select them to serve us and they should thank us to choose them and give them a chance to serve us.

Hence I would conclude that the 12-GE is the Election that RETURN THE POWER to the PEOPLE.

To all the MPs, WE (PEOPLES) are watching you, U watch out!!

Calm and Rest is Needed

Quite some time din update the blog, not really have the mood to write or something happened not appropriate to share over here. Just recently don't really get the chance to really have a long sleep and rest because of the tight schedule and family commitment.

Lack of rest and sleep tend to bring me into a "impatient" state, especially when the things are not moving smooth. It make me feel don't have the mood to talk at all, and those crap talks annoy me! Haith... at time, things just out of own control, the unsatisfaction, annoying feeling etc ...maybe it is time for me to go to the SJBA to calm my mind, listen to the calm musics.

Sukhihotu to all ...

What to do in Valentine Day if you don't have any date

My friend LEE WESON said : "Although today will be a disasterous day for ppl that are still single and doesn't have any date....

ppl with dates (Mr. Ryan & Mr. Glenn) will see u as a big fat LOSER

therefore, below is a list of steps that can be applied dueing Valentine's Day to prevent this type of situation:

1. Don't go out anywhere, stay at home.
This can avoid u from bumping into ur friend which is holding a super hot girl's hand while asking u:
"Boon, why are u alone ? where's ur date?"

2. Never answer any calls during the day.
This will show that u are busy dating and no time to entertain ur friends.

3. Stay at home, switch off all the light, close all the windows and don't park ur car near ur house.
If ur friends come looking for u at ur house, u can pretend that u are not at home and is busy dating a girl.

4. Never ever on ur YM!, MSN, ICQ, Gmail, Friendster or replay email/SMS.
This will avoid ppl thinking that u have no date and is very free to online and reply email.

5. Go to stooden.com order a very expensive flower and send to any girl that u like. "

Tues Record

It was a sad opening of the day as I said something wrong and make a gal seem angry on me. It affected my mood for the whole day in the office. After I made apologize to her, don't care she accept or not, I move on from there :)

My aunty and cousins visited me tonight, have a very good section with them. The most happy thing in the world is everybody gather talk in laughter.

Good news of the day is my eldest brother called me said he wished to invest his EPF in Public Mutual Fund. He is the still very supportive although we didn't use to have lots of conversation when we meet, in deed, we talk more on cyber world. haha Well, shy to talk F2F kut :P I did spend around 2 hours to explain the concept of public mutual fund to my buddy through chating and phone.

By that time it is already 2am in the morning already, hehe after spending some time on the Edison Chen's scandal picture that my Xroommate posted to me, I feel funny and funny ... Will give comment on to it in the later post.

Spend some time to chat with one very political awareness very high XUni-mate and it already 3am in the morning, so I have no time for my "handwork" already hehe ... Nvm la, my "handwork" is not rush, but it has to be done on next Tues.

Good Nite lo chan goh... It is 3am in the morning, tomorrow still have to continue my DDR3 architecture planning and waiting for my new LAPTOP to be delivered to me and unveiled by me :P

Valentine Day is Approaching

Valentine Day is approaching ... few more days from now.

Some doubtful questions for those still chasing a gal of their dream.

1. What should I do?
hmm hmmm book a flower and send to her office? I tak tau her department, tak tau her floor...
<Tak berani tanya, dunno... then no need to book flower = save cost :P >

2. Do I have any special program for her?
Dunno will she coming out if I asked her out or not.
<Dun ask, dun dare to ask, no coming out, then no need to plan = save the headache :P >

3. Prepare a Vcard for her?
Lazy go buy... dunno how to design n decorate the card for her ...
Lazy to go buy Vcard, dunno hw to design the Vcard, then mar no need to give lo = save the headache n time :P, Han Fan

Common, guys ... if these 3 question's answers are in the light blue colour, then I will guarantee you will definitely fail to impress the gal. If you have the gut, at least do something to show your sincerity to her. How you expect a gal get touched by u without u making any effort. U are not Jay Chow, not Lee Hong, not Bil Gates ... u expected gal like u or get touched by u with your eye ?


haha this one post sound like I am refer to myself kakaka
So guys... prepare yourself for this coming Vday, make this Vday the most memorable for her :)

Gals ... kasi chance sikit juga la pls.... ^oo^

Aging ... Changing

This CNY, after I visit my old home town friends, my relatives, I realized most of them in aging already with white hairs and more wrinkles. What to do? Children growing up, need money to spend for higher education since we are not bumi and malays, no AH GONG support us.

My old friend? haha funny... I start hearing them do not come out gambling and drinking because have to stay home to take care of their young children. Well a very good excuse to do not come out gamble and drink and then go back get mumble by wife :) and actually is a way to save cost as well. Money is hard to earn dude :)

A good trip back to Kuala Selangor, visited my friend who is in pregnant now due to accident :P But after seeing how caring her husband to her, I am very happy for her :) May her little daughter will be delivered safely and health.

Just quite frustrated with my so call "best" female friend during my secondary year time, she just keep her mouth shut and do not want to share anything about her. So at the end, we just talking with among us, and she just keep quiet there. Too bad just lost a best friend like this way :p, well, what to do, all i can do is keep bugging her, and if she still continue like that, I can only treat her as another passenger in my life.

Well, life is like that, those last time is not so friend with me, suddenly we can sit down and talk very well about our situation, vision and dreams. Those been SEI DONG, now like dare not or scare to share anything about themselve. So, I add one more new good friend in my friendship list, not at bad bargain as well considering I lost one very truth and good frenz in my view.

My another best dude got this problem, haha pak toh 5 years, then broke up or dumped by his beautiful girl friend. hmmm hmmm His gf for most of the people is really real pretty gal la hahaha Just wish him can recover faster from it :) The life is still full of hope and full of pretty gal or full of good gal.

Yeah ... New Year == Aging and Changing
Again ... wish all being <>

Religous vs Relationship

If u love me, can you convert to Christian for me?

This sound familiar right? You should have been heard from your friend complain to you about his/her partner requested him/her to be converted to Christian.

This is a hard and tough decision, for those who don't have own religion, they might just follow and converted to become Christian. That will be tough for those who already have their own religion and faith in them.

It is common practice in Christian family to find their partner in Christian as well.by I am not a Christian, I don't think I am in good position to comment on this Christian must find back Christian, if you are not Christian then convert to become Christian. Sound like if you marry Muslim, you must convert to Islam.

That's why I choose to be a Buddhist, where I will never be forced to become Buddhist by anybody.

Ask your gf/bf back the following question if they ask you become Christian,
If you love me, can you please don't force to convert me?
If you love me, can you please don't convert to become Buddhist, Taoism, or Muslim?
If you love me, can you please respect me?
If you love me, can you let me to have the freedom to choose my religion?

Actually, you get to know more about Christianity first by joining their activities before make any decision. Maybe after you listen to Christianity talk, you will agree with their philosophy and really become a well and good Christian. But fair a bit, ask your gf/bf come for Buddhism activities and listen to Buddhism's philosophy as well.

Just do not simply give away your faith or religion easily because of LOVE.

Belated 2008 Resolutions

This is end of January 2008 already, hope it is never too late for me to set my 2008 resolution. 2007 i didn't set any aims for myself as it was a rush and dissapointment year for myself, but still I achieved something I been dreaming of, tht's go for vocation. First I went to Cameron and Langkawi Island for the first time, then followed by my trip to conquer the mount Kota Kinabalu :) I Also have quite frequent hiking section with my gang at Gasing Hill.

Me have quite a number of aims on 2008. Here is my list.
1. Maintaining 2nd income
Yeah, no bonus, no increment for me on 2007. 2nd income is extreamly important for city man. Since December 2007, I already help my brother do badminton coaching at Kepong Badminton Stadium. At least I have extra cash to spend on by buy the accessories I been dream off. At least I will not reluctant to go for extra entertainment expenses :)

2. Second Career as Public Mutual Fund Agent
I become the Public Mutual Fund Agent on 6th of January, I hope to achieve at least RM50K sales at the end of the 2008. Although it is a very poor time to sales the unit trust as the market is very doom due the the scare of possible US recession.

3. DDR3 Memory Controller
Finish the DDR3 Memory Controller IP project as in scheduled and involve in the C to RTL project. Of course it will be nicer to involve in more and more different projects.

4. Have Health Life Style
Control my diet and weight :) at around 81Kg :P haha My plans are
a) Jog 3 times a week (Tough One as gotta wake up early in the morning :) )
b) Hike Gasing Hill twice a week
c) Sleep timing at 12am-6am or 1am - 6am on weekdays.

6. Join at east one 7km or 10km jogging competition
After the 3km run at the Christmas day of 2007, I determine to join more jogging competition :)

7. Vocation and BackPacking
2 trips have been scheduled for this year. First, it is my Phuket trip with my Xhousemate on May. During the Hari Raya Puasa period, it will be my first beg packing experience and it would be involve 2 countries, the Combodia and Vietnam. More vocation will be planned such as going to Sungkai "hot spring" and visit the Tanjung Sepat for their seafood.

8. In touch with Buddism & charity events
Its been very long time I didn't in touch in the Buddhism activities already. The last 2 Buddhism activities I joined were the Khatina Day celebration at SJBA and Fund Raising at Old Klang Road Than Xiang. Hope at least I can join 1 or 2 charity projects in 2008 as my weekend already been booked by coaching badminton.

9. Learn Swimming
I been telling myself to learn swimming since my university time, but till now I still have don't know HOW TO SWIM. Although my dream sport activity "diving" do not require you know how to swimming... well ... at least let me know how to "float" :)

10. Bracer
Putting bracer on my teeth is something I been wanted to do for some time, but too bad I too scare to bear the pain as I am very scare of teeth pain :P Hopefully by March I can put the bracer on my teeth. It is just another kind of self investment on myself.

11. Get myself a Laptop
This one I just accomplished last weekend by making order from DELL. Why I want to have a new laptop? I want to have new laptop so that I can do my computing at the dining hall to accompany my mum at the downstairs. Of course I will use this laptop to do my presentation to the customers for the unit trust.

Let's hope by end of 2008, I can accomplished all these 11 events!

The Bottom of Children Hearts

Today my this Altera share with me what he read from his friend blog, after reading this, I feel god damn truth, hence I share it over here with you guys/gals.

大学念了几年发现所念非己所好，认识自己搞清理想固然值得杀鸡还神，但国家未来栋梁说没办法啦，都念好几年了，先完成学位再说吧。殊不知岁月不饶人，垂垂老矣不敢再呆个两三年，令尊令堂养育之恩等你报答，唯有转修社会大学，为五斗米折腰。

工作了一段时日，对工作又失去热诚了，还是那句没办法啦，家中有老有嫩，哪敢转工面对未知，自己做生意思前想后风险太大又欲行又止。如斯态度在职场上加以延续，所以许许多多的打工一族浑浑噩噩地做个三等员工，等放工，等发薪，等退休。退休后公积金局的投资失误又让养老金流入大海，他妈的又叹“早知当年和朋友合伙搞生意了”

The first paragraph is so truth that a lots of my MMU friends told me, "I don't like engineering, I love management, but my mother force me to study FOE as she said 7A/10A/11As why go study management? Should study engineering, bright future, better future prospect." I was stunned and feel pityful for them as they don't have freedom to choose what they really interested. Something went terrible wrong in the society and the education system itself. With the narrow mind of most teachers and parents, the students nowadays are force to study what they really don't interested on. I take one example, the secondary school teachers force my coursin to study in "science" after he score 7As in the PMR. He requested numerous of time that he want to study "accounting" or "art" in Form4, he even go all the way make request with the headmaster of the school but the headmaster rejected his request as they feel he should study "science" rather then "accounting" or "art". Without choices and backup from family members, he continue his study and only did poorly in the SPM.

Student itslf always are to be blamed in this case in Malaysia, parents or teachers will ask why you do it so poorly? Last time you can score 7As in PMR, why now did it so poorly ?

Who say 7As in PMR must study science ? "Teachers say, headmaster say"
Who say 7As in SPM must take Engineering ? "Mother says, aunties say, uncles say"

Teachers and parents, I want to tell you, you just rulling your students or childrens whole life!

This is what happening in Malaysia, the parents without much knowledge and open mind force their children to be professional (Engineers, Doctors, Lawyer). The school teachers with narrow minds set rules that with good result in PMR must take "sciene" course in Form4. These un-quality and narrow minded teachers will going to grow our Malaysia NEXT GENERATION of leader? Gosh.... It is just like you ask a "un-quality" leader to lead a project, then screw up the whole project.

Double Check on The FIles Downloaded from e-Mule

I nearly did the blunder towards a gal by copy a "porn" movie to her if I did not checked the file before I lend my pendrive to her haha

This is a luckily incident, as I downloaded the Alvin & Chipmunks yesterday and on the way copy the files to my pendrive before I lend the movie to her as she wanted to watch this movie quite some time ago in the cinema but failed.

It took me around 14mins to transfer 700+M of data to my pendrive, while waiting it complete, I hand itcy then double click the movie, out of sudden... opss... the movie is not speak in english but french. First word come in my mind, "DAMN IT", I spent 2 days to download a movie that I donno what the language it is speaking. Then, guess maybe I just copy another movie called I AM LEGEND to her so that she can spend some time with on the weekend.

This time I checked it before I transfered to my pendrive and Gosh... I was stunned as it is a 5*stars porno movie ... haha Then I started feel lucky as if not because of the language problem in the "Alvin & Chipmunks" I wouldn't double checked on this "I AM LEGEND" movie and send to a gal. Hahaha I really feel lucky and happy as I did not made this blunder to this gal.

Should I thank god? hmmm or I thank my good karma ? Whatever it is, just be extra becareful when want to send something to some one, especially to gals.

Moral of this incident
1. Check the files you wanted to transfer to anyone to make sure it is what you wish to
2. Check on the files you downloaded from the P2P File Sharing program as it might be "corrupted"

Roller-Coaster of World Stocks Market

NEW YORK (AP) -- Wall Street struggled to steady itself Tuesday, climbing back from an early plunge after the Federal Reserve cut interest rates in hopes of restoring stability to a faltering U.S. economy. The Dow Jones industrials, down 465 points at the start of the session, recovered to a loss of about 175 points.

Opss.. This is taken at around 11am US time, opss.. this is shiok! haha I can tell you I am very excited to follow up this time possible US recession period. Guess from now on, everyday I will stay till 2am and wake up at 8am to follow up the US stocks market. The Dow Jones Industrials dropped 465 points at the start of the session, recovered to a loss of about 175. The recovering is due to the facts that FED of US decrease the overnight interest rate to 3.50% where previously is 4.25%. This cut of interest rate is expected to be done on next week, but after seeing the work market plunge following the scare of US recession, the FED surprised everyone by lower the interest rate today. This just show how worry the FED of US about the possible of US recession.

It is just like a roller coaster where the Dow Jones Industrials recover from -465% to -175. This is extreamly excited for me who is the newbie in the stocks market. I am still wondering, what will be reaction of the investors in ASIA towards the interest rate cut by FED, will it be a boost of confident for the investors or it will dropped further as the DJ are still in negative for now. If the DJ today dropped more then 200 points, I foresee that tomorrow ASIA will face another sharp drop in respective stocks market as even the US investors are not confident enough even after FED make a huge interest rate cut, how would you expect the investors in ASIA not to worry that US will heading to recession. If the DJ will rise to positive, I am quite sure tomorrow's ASIA stocks market will be a BANG after few days of doom :P

How does this stocks market affecting me? Yeah... In deed it scare off few of my customer who previously opted to be my customer for public mutual fund. This is very disappointing for me as I just start of my career as Public Mutual Unit Trust Agent, but I am still looking positive on this as I am confident on the capability of public mutual fund to raise more income for me compare to just put money in the bank for FD in long term.

I am planning for 2-3k to be invested in Public Mutual Funds, my investment strategy is simply, buy few good fund and do monthly top-up basic to lower down the average cost of the units, as I expect the market will be very volatile (as shown by US market market today, from -465 to -175. The investment cycle, it will rise after fall. So just constantly invest eventhough the market is falling, you will see big different when market rebound!

Tyres Puncture

What a Monday ...
At 7++ when I reach my car, I just stunned, my car's tyre puncture! haha Second time happened already, well I was cool enough as I first call my colleagues come over for help (Ask them come over to alert the car beside the road, as my car park beside the road)

Now I realize how important to have extra spare tyre in the car boot :) After finished change the tyre, I relieved and happy as from now on, I am so damn good in changing my typre as I got twice the experience already :)

Think of the "positive" aspects that the "negative" incidents happened to us :)

Oh yeah ... for those who got play "number game" my car plate no is 4719 :) There's somebody already invested RM300 for this number :) hahaha

Thank You SIEK ANN

Kawan baik saya dari Altera send me this email. Just take some time to read it and ask what we are chasing in our life :)

出生了，会笑了，断奶了，会跑了，上学了，会玩了，懂事了，


初中了，恋爱了，失败了，有希望了，


上高中了，想学习了，又失败了，逐渐绝望了，却上大学了，


一切都好了，没有人管了，抽烟了，喝酒了，打架了，处分了

，老实了，学不
进去了，


只好恋爱了，甜蜜了，同居了，第一次也没了，吵架了，又和好了，又吵架
了，就分手了，


转眼毕业了，立马傻眼了，好歹工作了，挣钱了，花完了，


看破红尘了，十年过去了，三十好几了，也该结婚了，


说办就办了，孩子早有了，安定了，团结了，觉得幸福了，


孩子长大了，我们也老了，孩子结婚了，不管老的了，生气了，生病了，突然
觉悟了，不过也死了！这就是我们的一生。


曾经在美国住过一阵子，他们的社区里，每到下班时间，就看到一家家的先生
开车回来。回来后可没闲着，衣服一换，不是除草修自行车，就是遛狗整理庭
院。夜 幕低垂，全家一起看电视，很早就上床睡觉，很少人会去喝酒应酬。周
末假日，不是在院子里除草、烤肉，或在车库办个小型旧物拍卖，就是全家出
门旅行。他们回 家，是把心和身和爱，都一起放在家里。

反观我们这儿，卖命加班、努力应酬、拚命喝酒、用劲唱歌，把实验室当
家、把 PUB 当家、把朋友家当家 , 你的家只是摸黑回去了，管他是沙发是地
板是浴室，倒头就睡。醒来迷迷糊糊的，梳洗一番又去上班了，没跟太太说上
一句话，没跟孩子 打过一个照面，搞不好跑错人家，你都不知道。做爸爸的如
此，儿女上行下效也如 此，做妈的心想，你们都不回来，我也出去吧！ "家
"就变成了一个空壳子。


无论你家谁是一家之主，不妨率先示范：


※ 每周最多一晚去应酬；不管是谈生意，跟朋友聊天，或是跟主管笼络感情，
一周最多一次，其余时间应该留给伴侣谈话，和孩子聊天，跟家人建立感情。

※ 即使晚归，也要清醒；醉酒开车要重罚，真是一个福音，至少大家都不敢在
夜 里喝酒。最好是连出租车也拒载酒醉之人，说不定能挽救不少形同陌路的婚
姻。因为没喝酒，回到家，至少还能清醒的跟家人说说话。


※ 回家以后，不以自己会赚钱自夸，照样乐在家事中；家事是全家人的事, 在
外奔波 虽然很辛苦，但是在家忙碌，也不轻松。互相体贴，付出爱心， 随手
做家事。

※ 不要把一生心血精华卖给公司，留给家人的却是破铜烂铁；为公司卖命， 赢
得高薪与高职，确实很有成就感。但随着你的退休被淘汰，这些都成过眼云
烟。然而你给家人的爱，却是一辈子不会变质，他们会回报你以更多的爱。 （
Be home with your heart ）

看完这一封信，不知道你是否也和我一样有相同的感触，我们每个人似乎都将
工 作的顺位给颠倒了，总是工作第一、应酬第二，忽略了家庭的重要性。甚至
未婚的年轻男女，也许因为过于卖命的工作，而失去了许多结交男女朋友的时
间与机会，而已婚的男女，亦常常忽略了家人的重要性，不要以为结了婚就是
保证，殊不 知现在离婚率这么高，每五对夫妻，就有一对离婚。

也许我们都应该停下来想一想，我们工作的目的是为了什么？
是为了改善目前的生活，让家人过好日子呢？
是为了要让喜欢的人得到幸福而事先做好准备呢？还是毫无意义的工作，
只因为自己已长大了？抑或是在权力和地位上的追求，满足自己的虚荣心？
不要管任何人怎么想，真实的面对你自己，正视你所要的是什么，
也许将脚步放慢点，你会发现我们要的不仅是为了赚很多钱，
而是为了自己的理想在努力奋斗，为了实现对你所爱的人的承诺，
没有什么是不能舍得，因为有舍才有得。

"Tribute to Siek Ann" for sending me this such a meaningful email.

KKK-TBH lost in 2nd round of Mas Open

I was there to witness how Malaysia top pair lost in 2nd round of Malaysia Open. Why they lost? Simply, pressure ... pressure and pressure...

It is just like the same situation happened at last year World Championship, Tan Boon Heong can't keep the pressure and do 4 consecutively unforce errors when it is tile at 16-all. Tan Boon Heong even dropped his racket at the crucial moment, this show how nerve he was. I do not blame him, but to blame the BAM and especially the media. More precisely, the Mandarin Media...

I just can't stand with the mandarin media, try to make the players be celebrity after they won the All England Champion last year. Headlines everyday, varieties of outings, all these really disturb their training progress and most importanly, bring pressure to themselve. I still feel funny with one mandarin called them "DIAMOND PAIR". They just won a All England Champion, call them "DIAMOND PAIR" after they have World Champion and Olympic Gold Medalist on their necks first. Too many un-necessary pressure being put these 2 young man ...

For the sake of their future, I hope the media can hand off them. Let them just concentrate on their training and badminton career.

It was a funny game to watch between CCM-CCE vs Chinese Taipei pair. First, during the warm up, I found out the Mas pair seem just drop and play net rather than hit hard to warm up themselve. Definitely they are conserving their energy :P haha

They won comfortably the first game, but lost in 2nd game after a good start, as they totally out of stim. hahahaha Luckily they won the game in 3rd set through their experience. One thing I notice, this Mas pair just enjoy the match, even smile during the match.

What the KKK-TBH lacking is just enjoy their game, as too much pressure being put at their shoulder to bring glory to Malaysia. Let's this two young man enjoy their game and learn to control the pressure well as remember they just not more than 23 years old for KKK and not more then 21 years old for TBH... Hand off them !!!

A Song's Lyric 香水有毒

我曾经爱过这样一个男人
他说我是世上最美的女人
我为他保留着那一份天真
关上爱别人的门
也是这个被我深爱的男人
把我变成世上最笨的女人
他说的每句话我都会当真
他说最爱我的唇

我的要求并不高
待我像从前一样好
可是有一天你说了同样的话
把别人拥入怀抱

你身上有她的香水味
是我鼻子犯的罪
不该嗅到她的美
檫掉一切陪你睡
你身上有她的香水味;
是你赐给的自卑
你要的爱太完美
我永远都学不会

Today my friend send me this lyric while I waiting for my "Fatty Dragon" friend for dinner. She told me she damn like this song! haha guess what, because this song really touch the deepest pain in her heart.
我曾经爱过这样一个男人
他说我是世上最美的女人
Surely, her Xbf said this to her before when they are so much in love :) (Sadly I never did :P , maybe that's why I fail miserably in relationship hahaha :P )

也是这个被我深爱的男人
把我变成世上最笨的女人
hmmm Guess this was and this is my friend's feeling even until now after they broke up more then 1/2 years ago.

他说的每句话我都会当真
他说最爱我的唇
可是有一天你说了同样的话
把别人拥入怀抱
This one I guess heart her the most I guess.

你身上有她的香水味
是我鼻子犯的罪
不该嗅到她的美
檫掉一切陪你睡
But personnally I love this part of the lyric the most. I love this part because this is damn truth. For all the mans and gals, please wake up! If your partner nolonger loyal to you, please show them the exit door! This is ridiculous, how could you still stand and sleep with your partner that is disloyal to you? To gals... Wake up and face the truth that he no more love you and just play with your just because the intimation or sex from you. To guys ... please be a man with guts and loyal to your another half, if you no more like her, just dump them away firmly!

This part of the lyric remind me one incident happened to my friend, where his Xgf want to try to start another relationship with another guy in her company. My friend run mad and planned to resign to go all over to Singapore to work to secure back the relationship. I remember I told him the following : " Hey... even u can secure back the relationship, would you really don't mind about that she ever disloyal to you? "

Memories...

My home town friend always ask me, what is the date that you start a relationship or break up with your previous girl friend? Frankly, I forget all, or... I never remember that special date. For me, the incident and how it happened is more significant to me. Hence, I always told them, I start my first relationship with my XXgf on alpha year, end of first sem (actually, i now already not quite sure already :P ) and our relationship end on the first sem of beta :P (this one i m very sure :P) haha But, you ask me when is the first sem, 2nd sem, 3rd sem period, i can tell you I forgotten :P

My second relationship? Hmmm... hmm... bila start (i really forget), bt i am very sure we broke up during my final year final sem. It sound like, I only remember when I broke up but forget when we start the relationship :) I guess, few more years later, I will totally forget about this two relationship's important date already, as my motto of life, LIFE GOES ON ! :)

Today is a date to be remembered ? Nope, I don't think I will hardwired today's incident into my memory data base, but I wont remember today's date. This is me, Chan Chong Leong, a guy that only remember "roughly" how the incidents happened and ended, but will never try to remember the exactly date it happened.

Suddenly, I feel sorry as I forgetted most of the important person's birthday in around me. My 3210 gang, i remember "LIN DAO" is on February, Mai on march, seong on june or july, weson i totally forgot :P hahaha even my best buddy Joyce's bday i also forget. haha should be around august... Well, I still remember my first gf 33's birthday, it is on 8th of dec, because she is 2 days earlier than my mum's birthday haha my 2nd gf ar? i forget also, should be on May as few days latter than my birthday.

Well, today's incident I will keep it in my memory :) A good thing or a bad thing happened will remain as my PNC :P In most people point of view, the incident happened today is to be classified as "bad" or "poor", but I still rate it as very "positive" as the outcome is not too bad after all. When we compare the "bad" or "poor" incidents happened with the worst case scenario, then surely we will feel better :) Hence, today's incident I would rate it as "positive" outcome as it is not the worst case that it could happened :)

Life goes on! and <> to all beings :)