我和她她和他

李志清 (Cheng Lee) 周华健 (Emil Chau)
我和她她和他

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我和她她和他

我们都爱她 放不放让不让

都不是办法 当逃兵装伟大

再这么婆妈 你肯定失去她

可她接受我玫瑰花

你还不送她回家

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

我和她她和他

我们都爱她 放不放让不让

都不是办法 当逃兵装伟大

再这么婆妈 你肯定失去她

可她接受我玫瑰花

你还不送她回家

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

想太多 理智的想法

不能证明你有多爱她

想问个明白却怕会为难她

却急着想要知道她的选择吧

好挣扎

问题在于你 并不在于她

我懂我傻

One nice song I like to share with my friends. This is the one 我和她她和他 sing by 李志清 & 周华健. Some parts of the song I really like it as it remind me about my feeling and doubts at some time of my life perhaps in most people who has problem in relationship.

A: 你算是男人就应该勇敢吧 ( U should be brave if you're a man)

B: 可我却害怕最后伤害会是她 (But I worry I will hurt her at last)

A: 想太多 理智的想法 (Think Rationally)

A: 不能证明你有多爱她 (Doesn't show how much you love her)

B: 想问个明白却怕会为难她 (I want to know the answer but worry it will make she in trouble)

A: 却急着想要知道她的选择吧 (But U rush to know her choice right?)

B: 好挣扎 (very undecided)

This conversation, I guess is very common among the guy's talk during the "sim su" section :) A challenge u to be brave, but B love the gal so much that don't want to push or pressure her. Don't want to pressure the gal to give him the answer but yet so curious/eager to know the decision made. Arghhhhh .....

Guys... did u all in this kind of deep shit problem before? Congrates if you are not as u have a smooth and happy life, too bad if you never fell into this kind of situation as u never fell in love :)

hahaha
Special translation for the most kns ppl in the earth only :)

Nature

Yesterday I went back to hometown basically done 2 things, visit my friend who's baby 1 month old and visited my aunty who also I would treat her as my 2nd mum.

My friend who just delivered her 1st daughter, look very thin :) Her parents questioned her, izit your in-law never take good care of her and torture her... Of course not, just my friend's not use to eat too much of chinese medicine (补品). Then she told me her experience throughout the whole pregnant stage and delivery incident. It make me shock, worry and yet exicited if those incidents happened to me someday :) I really gain valuable experience on handling the pregnant lady if it happened to my family in future. Haha glad to hear that she and her daugther are in good condition, as that's the greatest blessing in my view.

Some of the funny conversation are as below.
// 1ST SENARIO
SHE: "When I know I am about to deliver, I called my husband back home at 7pm++, then insist him to clean the house, wash the clothes, hang it properly before send me to the hospital!".
ME : "har? Siao ar you, go hospital first la, why still wash and hang the clothes ?"
SHE: "I know even I go to hospital, also will still sit on the bed and continue pain and the blood will still come out one la, better finished all the housework first la"
ME : "LOL" hahaha

// 2ND SENARIO
SHE: "Next time please force ur wife to EAT before go for delivery, eventhough she refuse, must insist and force her to EAT!"
ME : "Y leh? "
SHE: "abo where got energy to push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" HAHHAHA
SHE: "I whole body cramp after push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" Hahahaha

// 3RD SENARIO
SHE: "U know my bro's wife push half way, then go EAT, then come back continue PUSHING, cos she bo lat (no energy to push the child out"
ME : "I really LOL secara gila gila"


My aunty (my 2nd mum) was not feeling well recently. Though she is already 60+, but everyday still wake up at 4.30am and then go to work at the market. Her health and engine get worsen by ages. This is the law of nature, nothing is permanent. She even prepare her wills to my cousins (She is yet to marry) about all sorts of things.

One drastic changes I observed from her is that she more open minded already, last time she don't like relatives come visit her at night because she sleep early, cos the other morning she have to wake up early to fighting for $ again. Now maybe she really feel she might "away" anytime, hence she would more treasure the time with her sisters.

Buddha taught us, nature of human is like that, born, died, reborn and die and reborn again. How to get out from this born and die and reborn cycle is by study and practice the dharma BUDDHA taught us. The nature I try to mean over here is that, human tend to treassure something when they lost it or about to lost it. "I should have", "what if I", is very common in human vocaburary. Now we should really live on the current and treassure the current as
what the Buddhism always quote 活在当下!

Snatch Theft

A friend of mine got snatched the handbag at the Mobile Petrol station at USJ recently. I was stunned and worried about her condition in the first place, but after knowing she is physically alright, I felt relief.

Yesterday was the first day I met her after the incident, she look OK :) According to her, she lost rm150 Parkson voucher, new RM50 notes, 2 ATM cards, some personal pictures, IC and driving license. What I concern her the most, is she still OK, then everything is ok, as money can be bought back, pictures and keychain can be reprint or replaced by new one. But not the life or any serious wound that hardly be replaced.

To my friends, petrol station is HOT SPOT for all this snatch theft, please do not go to the petrol station at night if really needed, don't think you got someone accompany you, don't think you are tough, don't think you are guy or GAy, once you are spotted on by these snatch theft, you are in danger.

Some general tips so that you are not spotted on by snatch theft, keep alert and awareness higher by looking around like you are observing around. Please do not pay attention on handphone of gaming while you are pumping the petrol and so on. Your awareness or alert are low are the main reason why you are spotted on by the snatch theft.

sukhi-hotu to all --> May all of us always be well and happy :)

WE ARE THE BOSS !!

It's been very long time i didnt update the blog. Was busy with following up with all sort of 12-GE news. Feel very happy with the result of 12-GE where the 2/3 of majority of the BN being denied by the BR(Barisan Rakyak). The immediate effects towards us as the citizen of Malaysia is the price of the ELECTRICITY will not rise WHERE it will be scheduled to rise after the GE if the BN won again.

The second thing that directly affecting us is the petrol price is expected to be maintained as any proposal to increase the petrol price will have to seek the approval of 2/3 majority in the parliament where it's been denied.

3rd but not list, I assure you the price of TOLL will be remained! See, this is the power of the RAKYAT, where we use to be the boss. In this GE we really show to those idiots MP that WE ARE THE BOSS not you. IF WE ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOU, I WILL MAKE UP FALL. Same goes to the opposition, if you not serving us well.. Peoples power can elect you to be MP, will make u an ordinary residential of Malaysia as well.

Hopefully after this GE, the mindset of Malaysian will change, do not think what the BN give us and we should treassure it and thank to them, indeed, it is we are the boss, we select them to serve us and they should thank us to choose them and give them a chance to serve us.

Hence I would conclude that the 12-GE is the Election that RETURN THE POWER to the PEOPLE.

To all the MPs, WE (PEOPLES) are watching you, U watch out!!