Yesterday I went back to hometown basically done 2 things, visit my friend who's baby 1 month old and visited my aunty who also I would treat her as my 2nd mum.
My friend who just delivered her 1st daughter, look very thin :) Her parents questioned her, izit your in-law never take good care of her and torture her... Of course not, just my friend's not use to eat too much of chinese medicine (补品). Then she told me her experience throughout the whole pregnant stage and delivery incident. It make me shock, worry and yet exicited if those incidents happened to me someday :) I really gain valuable experience on handling the pregnant lady if it happened to my family in future. Haha glad to hear that she and her daugther are in good condition, as that's the greatest blessing in my view.
Some of the funny conversation are as below.
// 1ST SENARIO
SHE: "When I know I am about to deliver, I called my husband back home at 7pm++, then insist him to clean the house, wash the clothes, hang it properly before send me to the hospital!".
ME : "har? Siao ar you, go hospital first la, why still wash and hang the clothes ?"
SHE: "I know even I go to hospital, also will still sit on the bed and continue pain and the blood will still come out one la, better finished all the housework first la"
ME : "LOL" hahaha
// 2ND SENARIO
SHE: "Next time please force ur wife to EAT before go for delivery, eventhough she refuse, must insist and force her to EAT!"
ME : "Y leh? "
SHE: "abo where got energy to push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" HAHHAHA
SHE: "I whole body cramp after push the baby out!"
ME : "LOL" Hahahaha
// 3RD SENARIO
SHE: "U know my bro's wife push half way, then go EAT, then come back continue PUSHING, cos she bo lat (no energy to push the child out"
ME : "I really LOL secara gila gila"
My aunty (my 2nd mum) was not feeling well recently. Though she is already 60+, but everyday still wake up at 4.30am and then go to work at the market. Her health and engine get worsen by ages. This is the law of nature, nothing is permanent. She even prepare her wills to my cousins (She is yet to marry) about all sorts of things.
One drastic changes I observed from her is that she more open minded already, last time she don't like relatives come visit her at night because she sleep early, cos the other morning she have to wake up early to fighting for $ again. Now maybe she really feel she might "away" anytime, hence she would more treasure the time with her sisters.
Buddha taught us, nature of human is like that, born, died, reborn and die and reborn again. How to get out from this born and die and reborn cycle is by study and practice the dharma BUDDHA taught us. The nature I try to mean over here is that, human tend to treassure something when they lost it or about to lost it. "I should have", "what if I", is very common in human vocaburary. Now we should really live on the current and treassure the current as
what the Buddhism always quote 活在当下!
